On Turning 41 & Giving 41 Gifts Away

  • Lexcee
  • March 18, 2022
  • 6 min read

A couple of Fridays ago, I turned 41. There wasn’t anything special about this birthday except the fact that I was alive to see it. So I guess that, alone, makes it pretty special. However, the day came in riddled with the tasks of an ordinary day – picking up kids, running to practices, washing […]

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Grace to Grow

  • Lexcee
  • February 25, 2022
  • 3 min read

I want to take a minute to thank God for a few things: 1.) I am not the same person I used to be. I’m better. 2.) He gave me the grace and mercy to grow –to change–to evolve. 3.) He spared me from some of the disastrous choices I was making that had the […]

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Depression & Grief: Perfect Bedfellows

  • Lexcee
  • February 19, 2022
  • 5 min read

My life has been a wild storm of emotion lately. Some days you can find me dancing in the kitchen and performing Mary J’s “Just Fine” with the swifter as my stage mic , and other times you can find me under my favorite blanket balled up in a fetal position on my office couch […]

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Dealing with Death and Birth in the Same Day

  • Lexcee
  • February 11, 2022
  • 6 min read

Early last Sunday morning while on a weekend getaway with my husband, my cell phone buzzed the nightstand. I reached over and grabbed the phone and saw that it was my mother calling. I, instantly, knew something was wrong because mom doesn’t usually call me so early. “Hello.” As her voice crumbled under the weight […]

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Toxic People: When I Know It’s Time To Let Go

  • Lexcee
  • January 22, 2022
  • 4 min read

I make it a habit to forgive. Frequently. Often. Quickly. I won’t say that it’s always easy, but as I have grown older, I have found that it is absolutely necessary in order for me to have both freedom and peace of mind. There is nothing more draining than tying your today to yesterday’s hurts […]

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An Unexpected Visit from Grief

  • Lexcee
  • January 14, 2022
  • 4 min read

I’ve been thinking a lot about grief lately — mainly because I haven’t had a choice. I’m watching my family, in real time, face one of our biggest battles ever. Ever. This week…. Life. Has Slowed. All. The. Way. Down. On Monday, I was out of commission with a temperature of 101 and chills. Today […]

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I Choose Me

  • Lexcee
  • January 7, 2022
  • 5 min read

It feels funny declaring it out loud: “I choose me.” It sounds down right, self-centered, and selfish to even say –totally unbecoming of any wife, mother, or employee. Certainly, a mother would always choose her children over herself, a good wife would choose to prioritize her man’s needs, and a good employee would surely save […]

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Get Busy Living

  • Lexcee
  • October 18, 2021
  • 3 min read

I stepped into the room as loved ones surrounded her bed. My eyes scanned the room taking it all in, amazed at how life can flip so fast. One minute my dear friend and I were taking laps around the football field talking about work — joking about how folks know how to hit our […]

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Get Over Your Fear of Heights

  • Lexcee
  • September 6, 2021
  • 4 min read

How many of you cower in the corner when you are pushed into places and positions that make you more visible and accessible to the public? How many of you dread being in the spotlight? How many of you would play the background for the rest of your life to avoid any unwanted attention? If […]

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Oh, 2020!

  • Lexcee
  • December 31, 2020
  • 5 min read

Ask anybody in the entire world and I doubt that they would disagree that 2020 has been a year for the record books. Covid-19 came in and sat down like the unliked and uninvited next door neighbor who smelled our 2020 ambition on the grill and doused our flames with its foolery! When I see […]

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